Saturday, December 31, 2011

Happy New Year

We hope you swing in the New Year in style...

We pray you have a safe, happy, healthy, 
prosperous and blessed 2012!

If you are seeking a last minute tax deduction the orphans on Reece's Rainbow would be glad to help you out!   

We are thankful for our sweet Dariya being home and safe but, there are many others who don't have families yet.  
Please pray and donate.

Friday, December 30, 2011

I made a friend take 2!

Back when Dariya started preschool at IDC I posted this post  about a typical little girl (A)  who was a peer model in Dariya's class that adored her.  Well, 2 1/2 months later we get a call this week from "A's" mommy asking if we can come over for a play date that "A" talks about Dariya all the time STILL.   "A" even sings songs like "where oh where is Dariya?"  How sweet is that?   Be still my momma's heart!

This morning we loaded up the crew and had a couple hour play date with "A" and her older sibs (Aidan was quite happy to have kids his age to play with also).

This little sweet 3 year old truly loves Dariya. Anytime Dariya wandered out of her sight she would be quick to locate her.  While we were playing outside (it is a beautifully sunny, winter day) Dariya tripped and fell down.  "A" ran over to make sure she was ok.  But, the very best was when Dariya told me she needed to go potty of course, "A" followed right along, followed by Alayna.  When Dariya went the crowd went crazy clapping and cheering and "A" said, "Dariya, good job I am so proud of you."    What a sweet encourager.

As a mother I couldn't be more blessed to have witnessed this little girl's love for our Dariya.  I pray as the years go on these two remain friends and that both our girls experience true friends like this often.

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Christmas is overwhelming

For our little Ukrainian princess Christmas was a little overwhelming.  Nothing major.  No melt downs or freak out moments but, we could tell she was overwhelmed.  At Christmas Eve service she lasted about 20 minutes, due to her nap rebellion that day so she and I spent the rest of the time in the lobby.

On Christmas morning, we could quickly tell that Dariya had never opened a present nor understood what the heck we were doing.   We sang Happy birthday to Jesus and read the Christmas story.   She hung in there for about 15 minutes opening a present or two then quickly was ready to climb into my lap to escape the chaos of her siblings.  When I got up to take more pictures she quietly went into the other room and lay down next to the dogs and read a book while Aidan and Alayna finished unwrapping their gifts.

Thankful that she liked all her gifts and has enjoyed playing with them the last couple days.
The look of wonder before we started opening

We love our books from Ms. Laura and Ms. Juanita

Aidan loves his new electric scooter
The girls have played non stop with their new doll house

One of Dariya's favorite gifts - a doll head to groom!  She has been carrying it around like a caveman!   But, hey it saves Alayna from being her victim!
Aidan made Jason a MCFC football pitch with players for Christmas

Aidan and Alayna had a blast opening everything and loved all they received.  We had a nice quiet Christmas morning then had an enjoyable evening at my brother's house celebrating with family.

Christmas night opening her present with help from Uncle Ed

Saturday, December 24, 2011

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas...
We couldn't be happier and more blessed to be celebrating and sharing the true meaning of Christmas with Dariya for the first time.  We are grateful for the army of people who helped us bring her home.  Our lives are forever blessed.

Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger. Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests. Luke 2:11-14

We hope your Christmas is filled with the blessings of food, fun, family and focusing on celebrating Jesus' birth.

Blessings to you,
Jason, Rochelle, Aidan, Dariya and Alayna

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

My little helpers

The girls are great helpers around the house, they love to vacuum (sorry no pics for fear the dogs might get sucked up while my hand wasn't on the machine), clean the windows, do laundry (even if it is unfolding all the folded ones) and generally just help me do whatever I am doing.  Here are a few pics from this week to show you what I mean...
Feeding the dog  Checking to make sure there aren't left overs!

Making up your own games...
Helping yourself to a goldfish snack -  if the pantry isn't locked  it is goldfish ANYTIME!

Redecorating the tree - Alayna has moved this one particular ornament almost daily

I am sure they are working on that "perfect" Christmas picture because they have requested  me to take pics of them in front of the tree hundreds of times.  Who can refuse?

Helping add "lotion" (Desitin) to your sister while she uses the toilet and mom has gone to get her clothes.

See I told you they were helpful!  ;)  I wouldn't have it any other way.

Not too late to shop the Angel tree for Christmas!

Monday, December 19, 2011

Sleep Study

At our down syndrome visit earlier this fall we learned that the guidelines for kids with down syndrome now includes a sleep study before they are 4 years old.

Today was our appointment at the sleep clinic.  Pretty simple and painless and in and out in about an hour and a half.  Thankful for Aidan who helped entertain the girls while I answered all the questions.

The doctor doesn't have any red flags with either girl but, does want to go ahead and have sleep studies completed on them in the spring (so we can avoid the hospital during the winter months, thank you God for intelligent and thoughtful doctors today).

In April the girls will each have a separate night to stay over.  As one parent has to stay the night with them, I thought I would keep myself from going crazy and schedule them a week apart instead of trying to kill two birds with one stone this time! =)  Prayerfully no obstructed sleep apnea is found in either one of them.
Not at the sleep clinic but as soon as they got home they took care of their babies!
If you have a child with ds I highly recommend talking to your doctor about a sleep study.

Saturday, December 17, 2011

Operation Underpants take 2

Last Christmas break we held operation underpants using the opportunity of being home for several weeks to transition Alayna from diapers into panties and she has been diaper free (during waking hours) ever since.

With Dariya waking me up at 3 am this week to use the potty and the girls having a 3 week break before heading back to preschool I have again taken up the operation in hopes of getting Dariya transitioned as well.

Dariya will let us know most of the time when she needs to use the toilet but, isn't always consistent about it.  She stays dry most mornings at home and at preschool when taken to the toilet a couple times.  So I think it is time to try big girl panties....

However, she is much more unpredictable than Alayna when toileting.  She can go and then I think we are good for a while and  20 minutes later she has an accident.

Alayna was thrilled with her big girl panties, hated to be put on the potty on a schedule and had very few accidents.  Dariya didn't seem to be overly thrilled with panties at first but I think she is getting the big girl idea.   She doesn't mind a schedule as long as it isn't too frequently and will attempt to go when you put her on.  She is able to go about an hour without an accident. So far so good only 1 accident in a couple days.

Wish us luck and feel free to say a potty training prayer for Miss Dariya (and for me)!

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

5 months....

Dariya has been home for 5 months.  I know some adoption stories aren't as easy as ours has been and for that we are truly grateful.

She just fits into our family.  She isn't a square peg that we are trying to shove into a round hole.  I forget that she has only been here a few months, seems like forever.  She just fits perfectly, just as God had planned.

Don't get me wrong life with two preschoolers and an 8 year old (going on 30) isn't always easy.  For example, the GI Joe Dariya dropped in the bathtub the other night and tried to help us scoop it out or that both girls are starting to run so how come I am always the one who is tired at nap time?
Having all three kids is a huge blessing.

We have been told that about 6 months is the time when adoptive children lose their native language.  This obviously causes some language barriers, stress on the adopted child and therefore some unwanted behaviors.

As we get closer to 6 months home, we have noticed that Dariya has lost almost all of her Russian already.   When I spoke a phrase in Russian to her the other night she just looked at me blankly as if to say, "what are you speaking?"  Then Jason tried another few words and she didn't even stop what she was doing to look up or take notice.  

Her sign language is well over 100+ (sorry I haven't counted lately) and her verbal language continues to rise almost daily.  She loves learning and going to school and is doing very well.

We have also seen another rise in her self soothing, rocking behavior during the night which was almost completely gone.  Thankful we haven't seen it during the day since the first few months home.

About a month ago I was thrilled that she could actually say mama and know that was me.  She has been saying mama since we met her but, she never really equated it to me.

However, we have also seen a slight set back in that she started calling Jason, the bus aide, and even a 9 year old girl from church "mama" and probably all her teachers as well.  We quickly redirect her and she moves on but, to say that this isn't a process in our journey would be a lie.

The other week at church she walked up to a complete stranger and wanted her to pick her up.  This is not a good thing in adoption bonding.  I had to politely ask the woman not to pick her up and explained why.  Thankfully this woman works with children with special needs and had some understanding of adoption and bonding so wasn't offended by my request.  Yes, some people are offended when adoptive parents have asked them not to feed, cater to, pick up or show affection to their adopted child.  We have been blessed with a great group of people around us who "get it" and have asked before picking her up and have been thoughtful in not hindering our family bonding but, we know many families that this hasn't been the case.

We continue to work on the bonding and family relationship.  She understands we are her family and would probably choose me over anyone (unless you had food) but she really doesn't understand what a "family" is yet.  We know that time will help her understand and give her the connection to us and help her to feel stable and secure in where God has placed her.

Overall, our months together have been wonderful.  The bond between Aidan, Alayna and Dariya brings my heart joy each day.  To hear the giggles that come from the girls when Aidan plays with them is truly priceless.  To watch the girls pretend play is nothing short of fabulous.

Looking forward to watching the bonds grow, seeing her experience and learn new things and enjoying our blessings along this beautiful journey.

Saturday, December 10, 2011

DSG Christmas Party: Meeting Santa

This morning the DSG held their annual Christmas party.  As always they put on a fabulous party with breakfast, presents, Santa and plenty of time to catch up with all our friends we don't get to see often enough.

As the line for Santa wasn't too long when we arrived we thought we would traumatize our children  get good pictures before eating (don't worry we had already fed the troops at home before leaving, we don't miss that step at our house!)

As we were in line for Santa, Dariya spied the buffet line and starting signing and saying eat!  It all went downhill from there folks...and I have photos to prove it.
I love Aidan's "Oh this is fantastic" look  

Now WHO did you say you were???
Thankful for Aidan's everlasting smile!
Dariya was happy as a clam to get off Santa's lap, didn't care a thing for the present (princess backpack) or opening it and was joyous when we headed for the buffet line.  Show me the bacon!  Hey a girl's gotta eat right?

Alayna loved opening her present (Dora dollhouse accessories which will go perfect with the dollhouse the girls are getting for Christmas shhh don't tell them) and was excited to find her friends.

Thanks DSG for all you do for our family!

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Look out truffles

I love baking especially around Christmastime.  Two of my favorites sweet treats are fudge and Oreo truffles.  The rest of my family fight over the truffles (while I sneak away and eat the fudge).  We just knew this year that Dariya wouldn't be joining in the fight because she does not enjoy sweets (except an occasional ice cream)  But, I think we were wrong....

I told the kids I had made treats while they were at school so they prayed begged for some after dinner.

First bite I think she was hooked....

Alayna quickly remembered truffles and how to pronounce that word!

There are MORE??????  Sugar overload......

I think I will wait right here until dessert tomorrow night...
Can't think of a sweeter way to celebrate 5 months since we broke her out of that orphanage than with loads of chocolate!  Love you Dariya!

Friday, December 2, 2011

Oral motor update

We began really focusing on oral motor improvement on Dariya about 3 weeks ago.  Using Sara Rosenfeld Johnson's straw therapy, chewy tubes for jaw strengthening and cheek and lip massage to stimulate those muscles (this was something I learned from Alayna's previous speech therapist). 

Dariya has done fantastically well.  She has been able to go from needing jaw support to drink with straw #1 to being able to do it on her own without bringing her tongue outside her mouth.   She also loves the cheek massage and reminds me to do it daily. 
She is beginning to smile for pictures!
At breakfast this morning she picked up her cup and drank all by herself using the proper technique.  Jason immediately noticed and praised her on how well she is doing.  She has come so far in such a short time.  I am truly thankful I went to this workshop. 

At first Jason was pretty skeptical of the price of the straws but, we have found it to be worth it.   I look forward to the girls moving up to the next straw and seeing how this has an impact on their speech development. 

Alayna has better oral motor skills and can easily drink from straw 1, 2, and 3 already (possibly higher but, I haven't tried them yet).  The benefits of this therapy for tongue retraction, jaw stability, and speech production are numerous and we look forward to hearing Dariya produce more sounds and Alayna being more intelligible in her speech in the near future. 

As Christmas nears Jason has been working later and later (9:45 on Tuesday) so thankfully Aidan has been super helpful entertaining the girls during the transition times before and after dinner so we don't experience melt down city too often (on the girls part anyway).   Here is a little clip of the antics.

Monday, November 28, 2011

Look what I found under the tree

One year ago, Jason came home and spent hours on the computer specifically on the Reece's Rainbow website.  We had donated and prayed for these children but, after looking through the children's faces he knew God was calling us to adopt.  It was then that we began praying for which child that God was leading us to bring home.

After decorating the tree on Thanksgiving my sweet little orphan no more posed for some photos.  I am amazed and have been so blessed by the journey God has led us on this past year and now to have our girl home for almost 6 months is an amazing feeling.  God so knew she would fit in perfectly.

I was looking over the faces on the Reece's Rainbow Angel tree this weekend and Jason asked me why I kept looking at them.  I think he had a little fear in his heart that I was going to beg for another one.

But, right now I think our family is perfect the way God wants it.  However, that doesn't mean that we are to forget what we have seen in Ukraine or to stop donating or advocating for these beautiful children who need to have their forever families.  As I was reading in Hebrews today, God wants us to diligently continue to help others which in turn shows Him love.

As this week is cyber shopping week, I ask you make a real difference in someone's life?   Go over to Reece's Rainbow and make a child's dream come true, donate and help bring them one step closer to finding their forever family.
If you can't figure out which one(s) you want to help choose Charity!  We love her and long to see her home.

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Thankful hearts

Thankful for sisterly love that has flourished
We are so thankful for the many blessings we have been given this year.   Adding Dariya to our family has been such a huge joy.   Seeing her perfectly fit into our family is beyond words.  God so knows what he is doing.

We will celebrate Thanksgiving just the 5 of us.  In keeping with our yearly tradition,  we bought a gigantic turkey so we can take our leftovers and go out and feed the homeless on Thanksgiving night.

We have so many reasons to be grateful.  I pray that my gratefulness is a daily occurrence instead of a once a year thing.

Happy Thanksgiving!   May your holiday weekend be joyful and filled with His love.

“Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.” Psalm 100:4-5

Monday, November 21, 2011

Email surprise

We continue to have open communication with Dariya's birth father, Sasha.   He is always so gracious and thankful for all the pictures and information we send him about Dariya.  

When we met him his one request was that we would send a picture of Dariya each year around her birthday.  Of course, I asked our translator to ask him if he would mind if we sent more, like on a monthly basis.  He was so happy but, didn't want to impose on us.  He truly loves this girl and that makes our hearts so happy.  Every few weeks I email him a load of pictures and information about how she is doing health wise, transitioning to our family and at school.  He is so thankful each time and always responds with kind, appreciative words.

I still believe that if Ukraine had services and supports for parents when their child was born with down syndrome that Sasha would have kept Dariya.  I know many other adoptive families from EE don't have the opportunity to meet or be in relation with their child's birth parents so we are truly thankful for this blessing.

We never met Olga, Dariya's birth mother.  I wanted to ask why Olga never came to meet us any of the times Sasha came to visit with us and Dariya but, didn't feel like that was an appropriate question at the time.  Olga did call him while he was with us on Gotcha Day, she was at work but, obviously knew what was going on and that Dariya was leaving Cherkasy with us that day.

Sasha passes the pictures and information we email him to Olga.  We learned while visiting with him that they divorced after Dariya was born.   Sasha brought pictures of Olga to the orphanage to show us what she looked like and what Dariya looked like as a baby.

This week we were happily surprised to open our email to find pictures and video from when Dariya was a baby and a toddler.

Sept 2008 - Dariya is 7 months old
The director of the orphanage gave us Dariya's baby picture before we came home.  It  is so nice to have more pictures of her from different ages even though I don't have exact dates on all of the pictures.
A true blessing, thank you Sasha!

The Reece's Rainbow Angel Tree raised over $3000 for Dariya's adoption.  This was a huge start to our fundraising when we committed to her.  Please visit the Angel tree this year and help another orphan find their forever family.

Friday, November 18, 2011

ENT follow up

This morning Dariya had her 2 week follow up at the ENT's office to check her tube placement and to do another hearing screening.

We have noticed a dramatic change in Dariya's hearing.  She can hear at a whisper level which prior to surgery she wouldn't have responded.  So, I was so ready for the "all clear" and her hearing is great news but, didn't really get that.

She wasn't particularly a happy patient this morning as we left for the doctor's office at the same time Alayna was boarding the bus for preschool.  Oh my, Tasmanian devil came out for sure.  But, once on the road she was ok.  However, she wouldn't sit still and allow the audiologist to do all the testing that needed to be done so we aren't super sure of the validity of today's testing.

We got good readings from her right ear but, her left ear is still showing some hearing loss (hmm maybe all those years with fluid sitting behind her eardrums, you think?)  They checked her tubes and they look clear.  I was so hoping for a large amount of wax to be the problem but, it doesn't appear to be.

We will follow up again in 3 months to hopefully get accurate readings then we will go from there as to what to do next.

If you have a child with down syndrome, I can't stress enough to have their hearing checked regularly (at least every 6 months).  Alayna's ears were fine and she had no fluid behind her ear drums for the first 18 months then all of a sudden fluid appeared and stayed which limited her hearing tremendously.  Once she had tubes placed her hearing was back to normal and her language was again on the increase.

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Oral Motor stuff

School pictures from the LeeAnn Britain Center taken in October

When Alayna was little I was instructed to do oral motor exercises on her to help her with feeding and to get her mouth get ready for speech.  In being honest I did some but, I wasn't as great at doing these on a routine basis.  When you have a child with down syndrome you get thrown a ton of information in those first few months.  It took me a little while to sort through all the emotions, information and make a plan for what we were going to do with our little peanut.

Alayna could drink from a straw cup with only using her lips at an early age.  However, she would sometimes let milk drool out.  This showed me that she needed some extra strengthening in her mouth muscles.  Before meals I would have her bite on a teething toy that when she bit down it vibrated (a couple bucks at Walmart) for 30 seconds (or longer if she would) then I would massage her cheeks and lips.   After a month I could see the total difference that oral motor exercises made for her.  She no longer took in too much liquid, or let any drool back out. 

When I learned that our Down Syndrome Guild was bringing in Sara Rosenfeld Johnson, a speech therapist and oral motor specialist.  I was thrilled to spend the morning soaking in more information that will help the girls.

Rosenfeld-Johnson said that her oral placement therapy is an exercise, PT program, for the mouth.

I learned loads about what I can be doing with the girls to improve their oral motor production which will improve the clarity of their speech in the long run.   The goal is for everyone to understand everything the girls say.    This is one HUGE goal I have for both girls. 

Dariya still suckles even when drinking out of a cup or a straw (her tongue is wrapped around the straw or on the bottom of the cup).  This is due to lack of jaw strength.  She also grinds her teeth during waking hours, some not a lot.  But, this is also a sign of jaw weakness.  I have begun working on jaw strengthening exercises with Dariya.  Examples are chewing on a chewy tube or anything that is hard to chew like licorice that has been left out to harden.   I have also begun supporting her while she is only drinking out of a straw.  Within the past week she has already begun to be able to use her lips only to suck up the liquid.

I will be doing the straw hierarchy with both girls as Alayna drinks and eats fine however, she sometimes still has her mouth open in a resting position especially when tired causing her to drool some.   This open mouth will cause her to not be as clear when she is speaking.

One easy way & cheap therapy tool that I am using with Alayna is a tongue depressor.  I have her put a tongue depressor in between her lips and hold it there, not using her teeth.  Try it, it is a lip workout.  We have been humming songs with our tongue depressors in our mouth and she thinks it is a blast.  Cheap, fun and working on getting her to keep her lips closed all at the same time. Bonus!

Our materials are on their way and we look forward to using them and seeing how the girls progress in the next few months.

We will keep you updated as to our progress. 

What are you doing with your child for oral motor exercises? 

*As a disclaimer I am not soliciting this program nor the therapy tools we are purchasing.  There are many ways to work on oral motor skills this is just one program I think will be effective for our girls.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Heavy Metal

Who says metal isn't cool?

For the next year Aidan will be sporting a little more metal.  He had his palate expander and top braces placed yesterday.  He did really well as the orthodontist placed all the appliances.  Thankfully he isn't in too much pain (yet).  We will give him a few days to get used to the palate expander before beginning our daily turning of the key to open it up.  Oh won't that be fun?  
Super proud of you big brother!

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Orphan Sunday

Over the last year our hearts have been forever changed for the plight of orphans.  After working so hard to bring Dariya home and traveling to Ukraine this summer and seeing the sights we saw we will never forget all the children in this world that don't have a family to call their own.

We pray that everyone who walked along with us during our adoption of Dariya has been moved as well.

We are so thankful to have our Ukrainian princess in our family and are thankful to the multitude of people who donated, prayed and helped us bring her home in a matter of a few months.

I could sit back and say we have done our part.  We have rescued our orphan, we have donated to other families adopting, our job is done.  But, truthfully you know as well as I do that the story can't end there.   If it did it would be a colossal fail on our part.   We have to keep praying, fighting, advocating and donating to help these children find families.

I prayed for God to break my heart for what breaks his and he did in a big way.  Jason and I continue to pray for where God is leading us to help orphans.  We know that we will continue to support Reece's Rainbow and the orphans that they list on their website and we encourage  beg you to do the same.

From November 1 through December 31st each year Reece's Rainbow holds their biggest fundraiser, the Angel Tree.  The goal is to raise $1000 for each child during the holiday season.  You can sponsor any child with down syndrome and help them get to their forever families sooner.  With any $35 tax deductible donation you will receive a Christmas ornament with your sponsored child's picture to place on your tree.  

My sweet Maria (Charlotte as she will be called) is getting to meet her forever family tomorrow morning!  I love that I have her ornament on my tree from last year and I love the connection I have with her family.

Or there are awesome Angel tree dollars available for the first time this year.  You buy the angel tree dollars and print out the certificate and give it to whomever and they go on the RR website and chose which child they want the money to go towards.   What a great stocking stuffer, teacher gift, therapist gift,or just an awesome way to spread the love and advocacy about Reece's Rainbow.

Click HERE to go to the Angel Tree page and pray over which child you would like to help this season. (Charity is still top of our list, just sayin')

Dariya says, "What are you waiting for go help one of my friends find their forever family"

Friday, November 4, 2011

Ear tubes are done

Dariya had ear tubes placed this morning and was home within 45 minutes of the surgery.  The doctor looked at her adenoids but, didn't think they were enlarged enough to warrant removal.
I can definitely tell Dariya is hearing better as every door creaking or quiet voice in the recovery room woke her up.
They whisked her away and back so quickly I didn't even have time to snap a picture.  They let her drive back to surgery in a little tykes car and she was happily waving goodbye.
She is really tired and sleeping now.  Praying that after she sleeps off the anesthetic she will be good as new!
Thanks for the prayers!  Sorry for no pics of Dariya, but stay tuned the amazing Sophia from Soma photography is taking family pics of us tomorrow so I will post those asap!

Thankful Dariya isn't a sweets eater otherwise she would be SUPER jealous of what her sister enjoyed today at preschool! (Thanks Ms. Juanita for the great pic of our girl!)  Alayna is finally starting to talk at preschool!  YAY!

Cupcakes are the BOMB!

Have a great weekend.

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Just in time for her IEP

As Dariya's IEP is next week I have been thinking about what strengths and weaknesses she has and what goals we would like addressed at school.   I was thrilled (she says sarcastically) that she has chosen instead of napping to show off her fine motor skills.  For weeks I have gone in and found her asleep with her shirt off.  But, this week when I walked in I found this....

My chunky little butterball buck naked!

I dressed her but, she undressed herself 3 times.  After two hours of no napping and dressing games I gave up.  I think that skill is mastered. CHECK!

Then I began to think of vocational goals for her...You know it is never too early to start thinking about that transitioning.  So we have decided that since anytime Dariya sees a hairbrush she goes into beauty shop mode.  Complete with a heavy hand.  Don't even try to move before she is done.  She also includes with her services some great babble about how she can make you look beautiful in 3 easy steps. 
She usually comes to brush my hair but, this week she held down talked Alayna into being her victim.  
Maybe we could include some post school esthetician training in her preschool IEP.  Or maybe just when to STOP when your client says all done.
What do you think Juanita? =)

On a serious note, Dariya is having ear tubes placed and an adenoidectomy on Friday morning. We appreciate all prayers for a great surgery and uneventful recovery.  Thanks.

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Slow start to Halloween

I have to admit that Halloween is my least favorite "holiday" and I do use that term loosely.  Never really enjoyed it even as a kid.  My husband on the other hand is my antithesis.  He would dress up in a costume daily if UPS would allow.
So when we spent the days before in the hospital and came home Saturday I thought that we could possibly pull Halloween together still.   We hadn't carved pumpkins, decorated or gotten all the costumes together yet.
Middle of the night Saturday Jason woke up with some kind of stomach bug that knocked him down until late Monday afternoon.  We missed church on Sunday because I didn't want to take Alayna.

Alayna woke up on Monday and didn't have the energy to go to preschool, missing their parade and party.  So she and daddy hung out on the couch while I went and watched Dariya march around.  Poor girl had that look like, "what in the world have you people done to me?"  As soon as the parade was over and she hit the classroom door her costume was off and she was ready for snack time. 

Dariya chose pretzels while all the other kids enjoyed mounds of sugary sweets. 
Alayna had a nap and was much better, not coughing during the day or night at all just first thing in the morning when she wakes up.

After Aidan got home, Jason was feeling better so they carved pumpkins and we had a bit of dinner before heading out.  We took the girls to 10 houses and Aidan went out with a couple of friends and their mothers. 
On the first house Dariya was going to walk on in when they opened the door.  Haha.  Thankfully Janette had her camera ready and took a cute pic for us. 
The next house Dariya put the candy back our neighbor's bowl.  Even funnier. 
But, by the third neighbors house she figured it out that they were giving her something and she readily chose one treat from the rest of the houses and was happy.  By the 10th house she was tired as she decided to skip her nap so we went home.  She went straight to sleep but, Alayna stayed up another 30 minutes helping daddy hand out candy.  She would see kids coming and start dancing around at the front door.  Super cute.
Thanks Janette for the great pic!
Overall, I would say our Halloween was a success.  The kids had fun and we had a blast watching them enjoy the evening.
LOVE Aidan's smile as he squeezes both sisters.